Long before he started the WCU Online Program to pursue his MSN and become an Adult-Gerontology Primary Care Nurse Practitioner, Jerome A. had a story to tell. Born and raised in the Philippines, the 37-year-old rose to fame by competing in the seventh season of Pinoy Big Brother, the Philippine version of the popular Big Brother franchise. While on the show in 2016, Jerome decided to do something bold and come out as gay on national television.
I did that because I want young people in my country to see that theres nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or whoever you are, Jerome said. At least one young gay person watching you will have the courage to do the same thing because they know they can participate in the community and make a big change.
Coming out, especially to the entire country, was not something Jerome took lightly. His parents didnt even know he was gay, so the announcement came as a surprise to everyone around him.
It was tough. I kind of sensed that after this, people were going to be like, Oh my god! We know youre gay! I disregarded all of that information. I told myself, Youre not doing it because of those people. Youre not doing it because of the people around you. Youre doing it because you want to free yourself. It was a very memorable moment.
After Jerome left the Big Brother house, he wasnt sure how hed be received by the public.
When I was outside after the show, I kind of reviewed all the information that came out. It was everywhere! It was on the news, on social media, and on Google. It was crazy, he said. But that day was the day that I saw myself. Thats the day I considered myself being fully happy.
With this newfound happiness, Jerome found the ambition to pursue something hed always wanted: his MSN.
I asked myself, after coming out as a gay person: Whats next? How are you going to contribute? Because we dont live only for ourselves. If you have something to share, you have to talk. If you have something to contribute, you have to work… to pursue my lifes purpose. This was a good start.
Since Jeromes confidence and self-love now flow out abundantly, its easy for him to imagine how he might use his experience to help other young LGBTQ+ people in the healthcare space and beyond.
I pursued a nurse practitioner career because I want to specialize in STIs. I want to serve as an advocate for LGBTQ+ people and be someone who is there to provide information, he said. Sometimes, people dont open up about their sexual history. They dont open up about their sexual encounters. Gay men tend to keep some information to themselves because theyre scared. I want to help the community.
When asked about what advice hed give to queer youth in his position, Jerome emphasized the importance of knowing when the time is right.
Do not push if you feel like its not the time yet. You always need to have a support system. You always need to consider what will make you happy at the end of the day, he said.
Ultimately, Jeromes message to the world is one of inclusivity and love, something he carries into his practice and beyond: Whether you are male, female, gay, lesbian we are all the same.
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